At the same time, Jennifer shared that her first heartbreak did not come from Marc Anthony but from her ex-husband – Ben Affleck.

Jennifer Lopez ‘s love life always attracts and makes fans curious, because the “Latin star” is known as someone who cannot live without men when she continuously dates one person after another. Although she is quite secretive about her love life, J.Lo often mentions the pain of divorce from her ex-husband Marc Anthony , making fans mistakenly think that Marc was the first person who caused her the most heartbreak.

However, Jennifer recently revealed on the Today Show that the person who made her experience her first heartbreak was “Gone Girl” actor Ben Affleck .

Jennifer Lopez was happy when she was with Ben Affleck, so when they broke up, she was shocked.

Before dating and getting engaged to Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez had been married and divorced twice. Not to mention that she had dated many other men before but they didn’t work out. Jennifer always appeared quite calm and confident when facing her ex, until she faced the breakup with Ben.

Jennifer Lopez shared: ” The sudden breakup with Ben was my first and most painful heartbreak. To the point that my longtime girlfriend had to constantly be by my side and comfort me. She said: “I’m here… But you need to understand that no one can take you out of this pain, except you!”.

It was an unforgettable pain, because the breakup made me feel insecure. I felt abandoned, living like an invisible person in my own house. And you know, when we are sad, we often try to do things to attract attention. At that time, do you know what I did? I kept striving in life. I released songs that brought me “gold” titles every week. I was a guest on shows, but quickly shined and overshadowed the main character.

I’m becoming more and more confident. But there’s still a part of me that wants to be loved, still feels lonely, and thinks that I don’t deserve to find true love. Up to this point, I’m still waiting for my true prince. However, maybe it’s better for me to be single like now, because I need to discover myself more.”

To overcome her inferiority complex after breaking up with her ex, Jennifer tried hard to achieve many successes. Less than 5 months later, she got married to her third husband.

When admitting the shock of her first heartbreak, Jennifer was “twisted” by the host, because in January 2004 she and Ben officially “went their separate ways”, but in June of that year she got married to her third husband – Marc Anthony, father of twins Max and Emme. In response, Jennifer said that she herself is easily attracted to new relationships. At the same time, the people she attracts are usually enthusiastic in love.

However, Jennifer shared: “I realized that enthusiastic partners are not necessarily good. Even if the relationship starts out “beautiful as a dream”, it needs to be sustainable enough to overcome the storms, its foundation should be strong enough for the relationship to develop long-term… happiness cannot just last from the short-term stage of getting to know each other until after the honeymoon!”.

At the same time, the “Latin actress” did not forget to mention her ex-husband Marc Anthony and their nearly 10-year marriage. Jennifer revealed: “The trouble between Marc and I had been secretly appearing for a long time, but I did not dare to face it, I was afraid that I would not be able to overcome it when it ended. I did not want that marriage to fall apart. It was like my whole world would collapse, divorce was my last choice when I could no longer save that relationship, because I really did not want it.”

Jennifer divorced Marc Anthony because they were not compatible in love, however, when they “went their separate ways”, she admitted that she still had feelings for Marc and still does to this day.

I waited a long time to have children, even though I really wanted to. Even after Max and Emme were born, I thought to myself: “Oh my God, this relationship is really in trouble!”. We discussed it for a long time, during which Marc and I tried to do what was best for our children, and hesitated before deciding to divorce because we still loved each other very much. Until now, that love still exists. When I opened my mouth to say: “This marriage is in trouble!”, I really wished Marc would say: “What? No way”. But Marc also realized it clearly, and he replied: “Yes, I know”… That’s when we decided to give each other a new life!”.

After the breakup, Jennifer quickly dated and moved in with her young lover Casper Smart. The two constantly showed off their lovey-dovey photos on social media, and Jennifer even gave her young lover expensive gifts. Jennifer and Casper quickly broke up earlier this year when Casper was caught sharing his “nude photos” with others. Although Casper still held on and was seen with Jennifer on several occasions after the breakup, J.Lo has not confirmed that the two are back together.